These blog is a respond to what I think about the book "men are from mars, women are from Venus" by John gray. First and foremost we gotto give a credit to this guy who realize the difference between men and women. He takes many years and experience based on failures and success from his own relationship to came out with this book.
Today i would like to emphasize on Communication between men and women . It's like oil and water or ying and yang. Because whatever women says are not direct.
1. Each sentence contains hints on how she want men to response.
In order for the men to get it, they have to take out their Venus-Martian dictionary.
There is no direct answer you can get from the dictionary actually. In fact there is no right answer for each of the sentence. So what the heck is this John gray mention about dictionary?
Well it's up to your sensitivity to pick up every word and finds the hidden meaning on it.
2. Most of the right answer men should response in this quiz or game is depends on how you answer them. Well it is just like " who wants to be a millionaire" game show without the multiple choice answer. As long as the answer shows Supportive and continue to show interest or act like you are so curious or interested to know why or what happen.
3. Meanwhile each conversation can be added with more 'spice' such as
Ohhh
I see
Huh?
Hmmmphh (looks like thinking)
Oh no
Uh-huh
Yikes
These are also called effects similar to mute-comic strip men read when we was kids.
something similar when batman fighting with his enemy with sound effect "whamp"
"smack" Indirectly the women will be able to see the men are giving interest on the topic they have started. Viola!
4. Some of the magic words can be abuse multiple times which are
(drum roll) I love you
Women loves hearing this whenever they felt insecure, so don't be too shy to use it.
As this are unlimited herbs which are useful when critical situation. Why is it unlimited herbs? Coz it heals the conversation or mend a broken vase before it is broken. Since its unlimited, as there is no harm in using it everyday multiple times. And it doesn't cost a dime.
5. In some scenario where you don't know the right answer. Just agreed with them. Even though you know shit doesn't smells good. So when is the right way to agreed with them? Well like I said there is always a hint in each sentence. Just take not on the sentence which start like " I don't like....."
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